Nerf mood debuffs?

I love this mod, and I think its idea is really great for immersion. But I think the mood debuffs are way too strong and/or long. E.g., by default (if you don't use any special Sexperience precepts):

• Seeing or being seen having sex: -5 mood for 5 days. By comparison, if a colonist dies in vanilla game, it is -3 mood for 6 days. You shouldn't be more upset by walking in on other people having sex than you are by a death of a fellow colonist, right?
• Seeing beastiality: -20 mood for 30 days. This is the same effect as losing a close family member (child or spouse). Really? I mean, it is disturbing, but it shouldn't be the single worst thing that can ever happen to a pawn, at least by default.

and so on.

My suggestion:

• Reduce duration of all mood debuffs to a few hours, a day at most.
• Reduce the more extreme debuffs' effects by ~50%.
• And/or add a setting to allow the player to scale this stuff.

Maybe also factor in pawns' traits (e.g. Kind pawns react worse to rape, Cannibals are more ok with necrophilia etc.), but I understand it may be a lot of work.